If you have read Black Sales Journal before, you know of my obsession with the mechanics of the business relationship and how it affects the sales process and the fate of capable sales professionals.  Now, as important as that may sound, it is even more crucial in its impact to the Black sales professional.

Think about this graphic statement – “People will question all the good things they hear about you but believe all the bad without a second thought!”

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This statement speaks to the nature of all relationships, and especially business relationships. In business relationships, you are obviously under scrutiny.  You may eventually need references, certifications, and even credentials to get the customer’s confidence.  The prospective customers will go as far as to check references, interview you, and re-interview you regarding your ability to be a good vendor or sales professional.

If you have made the sale, you probably have done it by ‘jumping some hurdles’, and ‘passing the muster’ and all of this is to your credit.  After all of that ‘investigation’, your relationship is still fragile because of the premise above.

Credibility Is Indispensible

I talk extensively about the ultimate benefits of building credibility in BSJ 4/16/12 – Credibility – Can’t Buy It; You’ve Got to Earn It! But… it is fragile, and even more fragile when you are not the same color as the decision maker.

Note these tips to building credibility from that important post:

Sources of Credibility:

Appearance - Appearance is important.  Dress as a professional.  No one takes a clown seriously, and if you don’t dress properly, they won’t give more than a laugh either.  Always be presentable.  Remember, you represent your organization and yourself…there is no casual day.  Don your uniform, it will keep you in character, and set you apart from those that don’t know the drill.

Be Client Focused - Use every interaction, meetings and, to reinforce that you are client focused.  Know your clients needs and anticipate the ones they will need in the future, and exhibit it.  If you take care of your clients, they will take care of your company, and you!

Be Responsive – Do what you say you are going to do, by when you say you are going to do it.  Answer the phone, return phone calls, and be on time for appointments.

Communicate Often and Early – Don’t assume anything and deliver bad news as soon as possible.

Be Discreet – Never share customer information with other customers…never.  Once you do, in an effort to drop names or seem important, your customer will assume that you will share information about their operation with others as well.  Your quest will be over before it starts if you do that.

Exhibit integrity - Always tell the truth.  If you don’t know the answers, then admit it.  Always be the corporate citizen that you would like to work with.  No jokes about race, disability, ethnicity or otherwise.

Be an Expert - Always know your own product or service.  Know your customer’s industry.

Be a Master of the Sales Process – Know how to probe, support, summarize, and close, and when to do it.  Moving the process along, without heavy pressure helps to create urgency without seeming like a “snake-oil salesman.”

Always Have References – It gives credibility when you can show who believes in you.  It shows preparedness to have references including phone, address, and titles ready to hand to a customer.  Make sure you have references

Have Proof Sources – It is wise to always have proof sources for the claims of your company’s product.  A buyer/customer will be impressed when you can provide names of customers, especially customers within your prospect’s industry.  Make sure you have permission from those who you will use.

Some Things You Can’t Change

The vexing problem of the statement above is that you cannot change human nature.  That human nature leads people to be doubters and even quickly turn to nonbelievers.  With this in mind, develop strong relationships as best you can.  Avoid any behavior that could rob you of your valuable credibility.  That means avoiding jokes, discussions about religion, references to politics, and obviously race.  Check out this post for some guidance as well:  Black Sales Journal 1/3/11 – The Three Unmentionables for the Black Sales Professional!

This job is hard enough without self-inflicted wounds.  Stick to the business of selling and making money.

Always remember, be the professional! You can reach me at michael.parker@blacksalesjournal.com.

Business relationships are special.  They are constantly fragile, but durable enough to ward off competition.  No matter what happens in your business relationship, and no matter how close they feel, don’t forget that you are always safer keeping your language on the formal side.  Yes…I am saying that you never know what might offend someone.  Sales professionals are notorious for dropping an ‘F-Bomb’ in the heat of a conversation.  Is it worth it?

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Business and personal sales requires that a sales professional builds and cultivates relationships.  That position plays the role of relationship manager. All other relationships pivot on the relationship that the sales professional generates.  For those who have sold for years, you know all of this.  Much of this post is for our younger sales professionals.

As relationship manager, it is obvious that each relationship will be different, and will vary in depth.  That is the way relationships work in business and in personal life.  We all believe that we evaluate our relationships carefully, yet that evaluation comes with our own judgmental biases and perspectives.

The comfort of a relationship can lead us to speak and act in ways that are too casual.  I am speaking of the usage of slang and colloquial terms and phrases in your business relationships, as well as on the job in your own workplace.

Your Customer

If you are a Black sales professional, it is most likely that your customer and you coworkers come from a totally different background than you.  Life experiences buildperceptions (Remember the 3Ps, Perceptions, Preference,  Prejudice and Your Customer – Black Sales Journal 12/27) which one carries until they are ready to give them up.  The danger of slang in a business relationship is that you do know when a word or phrase validates a perception that a buyer might have.

This does not mean that you cannot say all slang, yet slang that is culturally significant when you are still in the relationship building stage could be unacceptable.  I will admit to my guilt in using culturally biased slang with some customers.  Usually it was long, well developed relationships where I exercised that ‘privilege’.  The length of some of those relationships was decades, and I was well familiar with their views, and the customer with mine.  I was lucky, and still probably should have been a little more antiseptic.

Is This a Big Issue?

I don’t think this is a big issue, yet for some of our emerging talent, it should be heard.  Forming relationships is hard work.  You need consistency and some personal protocol.  This is one of those things that must be remembered.

We all have a way of feeling comfort.  It can be a review of your relationship with a customer, or having the strength of a relationship confirmed by a new large order.  If you are wrong in your level of comfort you might seem crass, or you might spark something that chips away at a relationship.

Culturally biased slang includes language that in the Black community would not necessarily be offensive, yet we are not often selling to the Black community.  Even when we are, we want to have a solid idea of who our customer is, and what our boundaries are.  I suggest that it is easier to be in a business mode, and not take the risks unless you are certain of your customer and your relationship.

Your Work Environment

The work environment is a territory that you will know better than your customer.  Even in this territory, you should recognize the limitations that you should impose on yourself.  The workplace should always be considered “foreign” territory.  A familiar place for doing what you do to earn money, and make a career, yet a place that quite often has a set of rules that you have become comfortable with, even if your coworkers are barely comfortable with you.

None of this is bad at all.  Being at work is earning a living.  I had the fortune of working at a place that accepted my cultural differences and allowed me to grow.  All places don’t offer that haven, so your judgment is important here.

I was not the first Black sales professional that worked there, yet I was their first Black sales manager.  By the time I worked in that role, there were things that I said that I wish I could have taken back.  I learned on the job, and learned the hard way.  We all will not work for a solid and forgiving organization.

If you follow the same rules that you should use with customers at your job, you will never lose.  It will be easy to remember, and you will not turn anyone off.  Remember, taking back things you have uttered is like trying to “put toothpaste back in the tube.”

A Simple Example

Many years ago I was on a sales call with a sales professional who the customer told some difficult news, to which he uttered “That Sucks!” Think about that comment, and apply it to business relationships 12 years ago when it was even more sensitized.  The response from the customer was a face that I interpreted as being taken aback.

Now, quite frankly, there were many words that could have been used there, yet the one that came to mind did not sit well with the buyer, who was an older female.  When we left the call and were in the parking lot, I coached that this was not an appropriate comment.  I believe it was for laughs to a degree as there were several people in the room, yet that only means that there could have been several people offended (I don’t believe there were, yet our buyer appeared to be).

I believe that the sales rep took it to heart and appeared very professional in other calls.  I also believe that he apologized to the buyer who quickly stated that it “was fine.”  Fact is that it should not have been done.

How About Profanity?

I once had a manager who could use profanity, and no one ever seemed bothered by it.  Now, I don’t know if they were, as I was not polling, yet there were never any repercussions.  He was well accepted, and had a way about how he did it that desensitized.  I never felt I would have been that blessed.

The fact is that Black professionals should be careful about using profanity for more reasons than I could list in this journal.  It is easier to keep it clean, and be expressive and emphatic.  I believe there is no place for it in our day-to-day public image with the customer or employer.

Remember to always be the consummate professional.

We welcome your comments. You can reach me at Michael.Parker@BlackSalesJournal.com.