Entertainment and Gift Giving Etiquette

BSJ - Business Gifts and Entertainment

The holidays are upon us, and it would  be wise for us to review entertainment and gift giving issues as all sales professionals know, or need to know these points.  Proper etiquette in the matters shown below are important.  As a matter of fact, you can display proper sales manners and move to the top of the list as many sales professionals do not employ them consistently.  Whether in business-to-business (B2B) or business-to-personal (B2P), the number of sales professionals that display proper sales etiquette is not where it should be.

Proper sales etiquette comes in many important theaters:

  • Business entertainment and business gifts
  • Prospecting
  • Sales presentations
  • Telephone solicitation and use
  • Other

This post of Black Sales Journal will cover proper sales etiquette in business entertainment and gift giving.  We will cover the other sales etiquette categories in the next month or so.

Entertainment Should be Entertaining!

Business entertainment should have a purpose and be enjoyable, even when the meeting objective is not the most exciting.  Obviously, it gives you time and a way to build relationships, and in sales, relationships are everything.  This area is important as it is ‘your’ moment in the spotlight and as you spend this time focusing on the customer, the last thing you want to do is to strike the wrong cord and turn him or her off.

You may want to take a look at Black Sales Journal 4/4, Business Entertainment – Some Do’s and Don’ts, for some basics on purpose and cautions.    It would serve as a simple refresher to set up many of the points made in this post.

You can be in two different positions with respects to business entertainment, you can be the host, or you can be the guest.  We will touch on these two different levels of status, as they are different.  Regardless of which position that you are in, you are in control of your own actions.

The Host With the Most

As the host you want to be in control of the financial elements and the operation of the meal.  You have to be prepared to exercise control regarding:

  • Selecting the venue to match the occasion
  • Assuming control of the event
  • Setting the financial tone
  • Managing the wine and alcohol
  • “Managing” the conversations to include all parties

Match the venue to the importane of the occasion in terms of cost and atmosphere.  Good ‘business’ restaurants with favorable pricing are essential to sales professionals, and are usually a good venue, but the occasion should dictate.  Gentleman’s clubs and topless bars are a strict no-no, even if the client suggests it.  You are in control, and your ethics, appetites, and professionalism are at stake here.

Assume control by giving simple signals to the wait staff that you are hosting and expect the tab.  This gives immediate control.  The knowledgeable wait staff recognizes that when a guest orders something that will impact you, they will look to you for a ‘veto’. Remember to tip correctly as it is evidence that you are the professional.

Set the financial tone for the event.  Order first to set the tone.  If you order a sandwich, they will most likely all order a sandwich, yet if you order lobster, you will have a monster tab if the others in your party follow suit.  This means you may need to order a substantial meal even if you have a limited appetite to make sure that the group feels comfortable eating (if you are not hungry), yet that is the responsibility of the host.  Also, be discreet with the tab.  The guest(s) does not need to know the amount of the tab.

Manage the wine and alcohol by reviewing the wine list, ordering the selection, and inspecting the purchase.  If you do not drink, you need to delegate that but give some clear directives on cost, and you approve additional purchases.  Know when to cut it off.

Manage the conversation to include all parties.  From your vantage point as the host, be inclusive in your conversations, and get to know all of your guests

As a Guest

As a guest, you have some simple rules that you should follow which will help you.  These rules are simple, and show good manners:

  • Let the host choose the seating
  • Order based on what the host orders
  • Let the host ‘manage’ the alcohol, appetizers, and the deserts
  • Offer to leave the tip
  • Say “thank you” when the host pays the bill

Your objective is to be entertained, and these simple points will get you there without going ‘south’ of what the host is doing.

The Art of Giving

Your company probably has a gift giving policy, and you should refer to it for some basic rules.  While the IRS Publication 463 (2010) covering gifts notes your employer or your company receives a deduction for gifts, the $25 deduction that is afforded simply means you should always be careful and discreet in your gift giving.

What is more important is that the gift should be matched to the importance of the relationship.  The government prefers that gifts be ‘nominal’ in value, yet we do know that some relationships deserve more than others.  When you decide to give, the memorable way is to give a well-composed note with the gift that explains the purpose of the gift.  There is a good possibility that the note will be around for a while.

A gift that is ‘out of proportion’ with the relationship will be recognized for that peculiarity, and may not have the desired effect that may be honorable.  An engraved pen is a fine gift, and signifies a business relationship.  It is a great gift for an important business relationship.  A gift of golf balls is a sound and affordable gift for golf lovers, and does not break any rules.  Giving elaborate gifts can give the appearance that you are manipulating the relationship.  Giving a putter is good, giving a ‘set of clubs’ does not look as innocent.

Many organizations require their employees to sign disclosures of all gifts over nominal value once a year.  The firm that is auditing the customer usually requires this.  Keeping in mind that many of the buyers that are courted are financial professionals and very much careful with this requirement.

Summary

When I was a sales manager I had a a responsibility to determine if gifts were appropriate or inappropriate, as well as question and consider approval of some interesting entertainment.  Returning a gift is an uncomfortable process; you would be wise not to put a customer in that position.   By the same token, finding out that you might be funding some of your business entertainment out of your pocket because you violated expense policy can be quite painful as well.

These areas of etiquette easily learned but also meet the ‘smell’ test.  If it does not feel right, don’t do it.  Knowledge is important, so know your company’s expense policy, and keep it handy.  Expose yourself to your company’s gift giving policies as well, and avoid errors up-front.

Knowledge is everything.

Your comments are welcome.

Know How You Get Paid! It’s About That Paper

The most important aspect of a sales job is getting paid.  In the end it is about that paper! I am not talking about the money type of paper; I am talking about the written remuneration or compensation plan.  That is the most important paper out there.  Getting paid is important; as it is one way to keep score, yet it is also the way we eat and keep our families happy.

The objective of this post is to give those who need to know a basis to understand the basic remuneration systems in an easy, no nonsense way.  What is more important is that you learn your company’s system and “work the hell” out of it.

Remember, it is your right to work the system, yet also, it is good policy on your part to keep your activities in the spirit of the system as well.  Working the system is not cheating, and if you are within the spirit of the system, and you will still get your reward.

An important note for all remuneration/compensation stakeholders is that whenever commissions are involved, care must be taken to realize the volatility that can exist.  Sometimes this uncertainty is beneficial (higher earnings), and sometimes it can be detrimental.  In the end, as I said, it’s about the paper, but also the confidence you have in the company’s products and your own abilities.

7 Major Types of Compensation Methods

Companies have the right to do whatever is legal and makes sales happen.  They can put together a variety of different types of plans that stimulate gross sales, retain sales professionals, promote particular products, develops territories, etc.  There are significant numbers of Black sales professionals in each of these type of arrangements with many prospering.  Your ability to take downside risk will determine how you feel about these.

Having been involved in the design and approval of compensation plans from a company standpoint, much thought goes into them, as once they are out there, they you are stuck with them for the prescribed term.

Here are examples of the most popular and widely used plans:

Salary – You have a simple formula to operate under, yet no incentive to excel other than a performance review.  Salary is safe and secure with no upside.

Straight Commission – No base salary, no upside limit, and the downside can be “$0 dollars”.  The risk is with you, yet if you excel, and you must to work under this system, the “force” is with you.

Draw Against Commission – In this one, you have some subsistence in the form of a ‘draw’ providing an advance of commissions with an agreement to pay it back if you do not ‘earn’ it.  The employer is essentially loaning you money against your commission income.  You get the benefit of some subsistence but still have the risk of an downside and the benefit of an upside.

Salary Plus Bonus – A pay system sought after by many professionals as it provides a solid floor, while providing significant upside earnings paid periodically, often quarterly as a bonus.  Often using the components of a straight commission system to help determine the bonus amount.

Base Plus Commission – Similar to above, this is a popular method, tried and proven.  Fixed base salary with commissions paid on the system quarterly or more often.  Commissions are usually based on percentages of dollars sold.

Variable Commission – These are straight commission schemes that have percentages that vary with product, size of the sale, attainment of goals, etc.  Much depends on what the company is trying to promote.

Residual Commission – Commissions that are paid based on customer longevity once initiated.  Aggregate residual commissions can form a solid ‘base’ which provides a good income, and some stability.

There may be other methods of compensation, but usually it is based on some variation of one of these arrangements.  In almost all cases the compensation plan is in writing, and available to all sales professionals for study.  Don’t forget to study this item and even have discussion with some of the more experienced sales professionals in your sales unit.  You will want to know the nuances of this plan that makes for higher earnings.

How Much Guts Do You Have?

Obviously these different arrangements involve different risks.  Hands down the straight commission set-up involves the most risk and highest instability.  It is sales compensation in its purest sense.  You sell and you get paid! I never worked nor managed in a system like this, and recognize that many of you do.

There are combinations of these elements that make for remuneration systems that need the ability to emphasize particular objectives.

Example 1. A salary + bonus system that wants to reward customer longevity attaches a component which uses residual commissions to strengthen the bonus.

Example 2. A variable commission changes your percentage on sales of a certain product based on reaching a certain level of sales.  Let’s say you receive 8% commission on the first $100,000 of sales of widgets, which increases to 12% for all sales thereafter.  Once you reach the 100,000, you are rewarded with more from your great work.

Yes, It’s About that Paper!

I would make the suggestion that you get your organization’s sales compensation plan in front of you and study it.  Do the brief interview with your sales comrades to determine how to maximize it.

There are times that the organization’s objectives, and the compensation or remuneration plan are not in concert.  Rewarding the sales of products that are not profitable, or are in low supply are examples.

Know the plan and formulate your objectives and you can work efficiently and effectively by maximizing your efforts and your income.

Be effective!