Playing the Race Card! A Tough Game to Win!

The Race Card

I run this post every every once in a while.  It will always be relevant and I believe it is true.    Do remember that the no matter what your color, the your use of race  or ethnicity in your assessment of whether you were treated fairly in receiving a promotion or favor is in essence ‘playing the race card’.  Only involve race, color,  or ethnicity  when you really believe it was truly unfairly utilized against you, and you  have some substantiation to  prove it!

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Are you playing the race card?  Without doubt, this is a loaded question.  Playing the race card in the work setting is similar to dropping a hand grenade in a prayer session.  It is polarizing and negative and changes the landscape and the game.  Quite frankly, it creates an explosion when you do it, and even if there are no casualties, you have created strident enemies all around you.

What is this ‘thing’ we call the race card and is there ever a time to use it?

Simple Definitions

To capture the definition of race card, I visited Wikipedia.  It is not always the most credible source, but it puts a stake in the ground of controversial subjects including this one:

According to Wikipedia:

In the less critical sense, the phrase is commonly used in two contexts. In the first, and more common context, it alleges that someone has deliberately and falsely accused another person of being a racist in order to gain some sort of advantage.[1] (Continued)

In the second context, it refers to someone exploiting prejudice against another race for political or some other advantage. The use of thesouthern strategy by a political candidate is said by some to be a version of playing the race card, such as when former Senator Jesse Helms, during his 1990 North Carolina Senate campaign ran an ad showing a black man taking a white man’s job, intended as a criticism of the idea of racial quotas. The ad was interpreted by many people as trying to play to racist fears among white voters.

Excerpted from “Race Card”, Wikipedia 9/3/2011

The most important portion of the definition of “race card” from Wikipedia above is accentuated here:

“…it alleges that someone has deliberately and falsely accused another person of being a racist in order to gain some sort of advantage.”

Quite simply put, the race card manifest itself in our business environment in a couple of profound ways:

  • An individual (let’s say Black employee) suggest issues involving race as the reason for some less than desirable action on the part of a manager or superior, which results in an impairment or disadvantage.  The employee specifically cites race or racism as being evident.
  • A manager or another employee attempts to discredit an employee (let’s say Black employee) by falsely suggesting that the employee has cited race as the reason for a particular treatment or actions.

There are other ways that it can play out, yet these represent some of the more prominent issues that have to do with this interchange.  No one wants to be discredited.  Not the manager, nor the employee.  The mere mention that one feels discriminated against is toxic in an organization, so both of these are problematic.

Falsely accusing someone of being racist is a simple concept.  It is wrong and playing that card is detrimental to all Black professionals who are working to be the best that they can be.  Misrepresenting what an employee thinks or feels about any aspect of discrimination to pre-empt an action or discussion is just as wrong.

So playing the race card can mean a lot of things, but it happens both ways.  Both ways are detrimental to good relations, and we should be real careful about alleging that race and racism is a motivation unless it is quite evident.

What if it is true?  If it is true, you might phrase that as ’playing the race card’ as well, yet be very careful as being able to prove the truth is not an easy task.  Even though ‘the truth will set you free’, it may not get you justice in a case like this.

What Can You Prove?

It is always smart to avoid any claim that you cannot prove.  Remember, “It is not what you know, it is what you can prove!” With that in mind, your claims regarding management should be restrained when it comes to racism, and always yield to that which you can substantiate.

If you have a provable claim of disparate treatment, you should have discussions on the basis of that treatment, not racism.  In other words, if you are being treated unfairly, have those discussions with the manager or HR; yet be reserved with any race card.   The best HR professionals will understand you and your claim if you are clear, and if the claim is actionable, they will act on it.  Good HR professionals consider the possibility racism, whether they tell you or not.

I always say “what you can prove” because racism (in this case) is an attitude which is evidenced by how a manager treats his/her employees.  Proving that there is a racist attitude means nothing if it is not accompanied by activities that show discrimination.  What are you trying to prove?  Proving that you are discriminated against is difficult, yet doable, but it is not easy at all

Win the Smart Way

Don’t make assertions based on the race card.  Challenge management to be fair and unbiased, and you can do that without charges that are extremely difficult to prove.  Stand up for yourself and keep good objective records that will substantiate any objective complaints that you might have.

If you suspect that there is a problem, bounce the situation off of a mentor (if you trust him/her) or a confidant in another field or industry for tips on how they would handle it.  Most bona fide professionals can ‘smell’ racism when it is present.  Always base your complaints on fairness and equity unless it is something simple to prove.  Fairness and equity are important and lend themselves to reasonable proof.  Unfortunately racism is insidious and it is never lends itself to easy proof.

An example of fairness and equity is illustrated in this example:

Your manager is giving all of the new prospects to someone else, and you need new prospects, you should consider approaching that on the basis of fairness and equity, even if  you suspect racism.

Benefit – It puts everyone on notice that you recognize that you are not being treated fairly.

Weakness – You don’t change what has happened in the past, only going forward.

In this situation, you speak to the manager openly and frankly about what you believe is the disparity.  The manager should be the first stop, and he or she will recognize that you are being a professional by bringing it to him/her first.   If it persists, your next stop is HR to discuss the actions.  You will get some advice from there about how to proceed, yet realize that you need your “ducks in a row” as you consider going above your manager.

If it is repairable, it normally can be done at that level.  Always be the professional in your actions.  It will pay dividends.

Your comments are appreciated.

Getting Past the Irrepressible Gatekeeper!

The Gatekeeper

As a sales professional in B2B sales the first significant milestone in the sales process is getting past the Gatekeeper. This might not be an easy process, but the truth is you have limited sales possibilities until you master getting past, or in some cases around this individual.  Let’s spend some time discussing some tips on how to get you past the gatekeeper.

Working with the Gatekeeper

The Gatekeeper’s role is simply to screen calls and visitors.  As you know the calls are screened to allow his/her boss to be efficient and focused. You and I both know that one of the items that will make increase efficiency and effectiveness is your product or service!

Chances are you may have received some training in how to do this, or have been doing it long enough that you have your own techniques, but this general refresher cannot harm you.

Here are some tips in regard to getting past the gatekeeper, keeping in mind that sometimes getting past the gatekeeper is simply getting around the gatekeeper.

Getting past the Gatekeeper:

  • Befriend the Gatekeeper – A vast majority of Gatekeepers are helpful professionals.  They are doing their job.  They should be treated well.  Be personable but not phony.  You may find an ally here.
  • Do not send anything in writing – Many Gatekeepers will ask you to send information.  What do you think happens to this information once sent?  Advise that the information you send is based on the needs of the account.  Let the Gatekeeper know that you need to talk with that buyer to discuss what is needed.
  • Keep it vague – Remain vague, as you do not want the Gatekeeper making decisions as to the worth of your product or service.
  • Don’t settle for another contact – Chances are you will never talk to the decision maker after electing to talk to a surrogate.
  • Always use the buyer’s first name – Familiarity is important.  Use the first name if you know that his/her first name is used.
  • Call back when the gatekeeper says to call – This is important even if you don’t get through.  Remind the Gatekeeper of this when you call.
  • Agree to early appointments – Offer for an early appointment (telephone or in person).
  • Drop Names – This can give credibility. “I work with ABC Company across the street.
  • Use Referrals – Referrals build credibility if appropriate.  “John Johnson of ABC Company next door requested I call Mr. Jones, and I am doing it.”
  • Practice all Scenarios and be prepared for each call – Be prepared knowing your responses to the common objections.  It is projected that the gatekeeper knows 3-4 objections, and readily uses at least 2 objections.  Anticipate the objections.
  • Follow-Up is a must – You must track the conversations with notes and follow-up.  Don’t miss an opportunity.
  • Never show frustration – Your 10th call should have the same tone as your first.  Display no rudeness or sarcasm
  • Never pose as someone you are not – You are a sales professional, not the IRS, Police, or a relative.

Another Approach – Getting Around the Gatekeeper

Sometimes you cannot convince the Gatekeeper of the importance of your visit.  If that is so, you might need to be resourceful.  I am not a total advocate of all of these, yet you may need to try some different measures.

  • Call during the lunch hour – There is a good possibility that the Gatekeeper will be out and you will talk to a ‘stand-in’ who is easier with information.
  • Call Early or Late- This may get you through to the buyer without interference from the gatekeeper.  Many buyers are in the office as early at 7:00A.
  • ‘Misdirection’ - Call one number different than your buyer (Gatekeepers number 445-5858 so dial 445-5857) When you get the wrong number, say which number you dialed and who you want to speak to. In many cases they will connect you to the buyer, as it will look as if the call is from another department, not the outside.
  • Ask the Operator for accounts receivable or the mailroom - They are not trained to screen calls.  Once you get that department, tell the person on the phone that you want to speak to ‘John Buyer’, and they will try to connect you.  Same principle as above.
  • Always ask for the extension – When you do get someone to attempt to connect you make sure to ask for the extension “so you do not have to bother anyone again!”  This should be a habit.
  • Listen well to the voicemail message- Note the return date, any alternative contacts, and remember you don’t have to leave a message.

You can make it to the buyer but need to be creative and professional. There is no way to be successful until you hone these skills.  Keep good notes and always know the name of person that you are talking to.  Remember the Gatekeeper is a person who desires respect for his/her position.

Be Memorable

Imagine being in a job where people who are supposed to be professionals treat you rudely and with dispatch when you are doing your job?  That is a reality in the Gatekeeper’s role.  Make a positive impression and be personable. They will remember you.  Your treatment of the person in this role will make the difference.  If it does not work, you still must accomplish your mission, and will have to consider Getting Around the Gatekeeper.

Someone will get through at some point, and your hope is for it to be you. Know the techniques and give it your best shot.  Remember that it is your first milestone in this important customer relationship.

Never give up!  Thanks for reading.  We look forward to your comments. You can reach me at Michael.Parker@BlackSalesJournal.com.