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Empathy - the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts, and experience of another of either the past or present without having the feelings, thoughts, and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner; also : the capacity for this.

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Selling and the sales process in general can be consuming.  Remembering the sales techniques, the product specifications, the time lines, and…oh yes, the customer.

The customer, regardless of the quips and quotes of many sales books and sayings, should not be forgotten, yet frequently is either forgotten or not made the focal point.

The best sales professionals realize that the customer’s plight will spell their success.  Having an insight into the concerns and feelings of the customer may take a little more energy, yet can result in the type of relationships that are enduring and profitable.

Logical Order

You meet a new customer for the first time, and this is your great opportunity to land a profile account and you have been waiting for it for a long time.  After the perfunctory introductions you begin to describe your company’s history, philosophy, and superb reputation.  He shows signs of agreement and understanding, and even compliments your fine organization.

You launch into the products that made your organization what it is, and even note which of your fine products you think would fit the customer’s needs based on the best selling product in your companies cadre of products.  He is engaged in the process, and showing interest.

Before we go any further with this, take note, you may be showing your knowledge of your company’s products and your presentations skills, yet you have missed the opportunity to understand what the customer needs.  You will likely blow the sale, or even worse, sell the customer something that they don’t need.  If you miss the opportunity to know the customer’s needs you will be hard pressed to provide solutions and satisfy needs.

Stephen R. Covey said it best in his book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, “Seek first to understand, then to be understood” (Habit 5).  It has been said many other ways, but this one is the easiest to internalize.  The more knowledge you have about the customer, the more qualified you are to help that customer.  Knowing gives you the basis for empathy.

At the basis of this is good communications and the one of the least mastered skills…listening. (Black Sales Journal 4/14 – Are You Listening To Your Customer?)

How Would You Feel?

The easiest way to think about how your interaction affects the customer is to put yourself “in the shoes” of your customer.  As a customer, you want to have solid communications and a sales professional servicing your business that understands your business, and your businesses situation.

Customers want someone who has taken the time to carefully probe their needs, including their strengths and weaknesses so that they can offer solutions.  They want you to know relevant aspects of their business plan as well.  When you probe with the question, “What is your company going to look like in 8 years?” The customer might respond “Our growth will result in a tripling in size most likely because of our movement to automatic widgets as opposed to manual ones, as that is the most profitable line that we have.”

If appropriate, ask relevant questions regarding business goals and objectives.  It takes time, but that it what a true professional does.

This professional does the following:

• Seeks to understand your customer’s needs and priorities, and is genuinely empathetic because they do understand.
• Knows the customers goals and objectives and works to get fulfillment
• Clearly communicates with the customer, then follows with correspondence for monitoring and clarity.
• Avoids using technical language and jargon that your customer may not understand.
• Allows the sales process to proceed naturally, and does not exert unnecessary pressure.

Empathy allows you to recognize the importance and gravity of many of the issues in the customer’s world, and how they are affected.  It increases the urgency on some matters and decreases it on others, and that allows you to know, as the client knows, what is most important.

Don’t Fake It

Care must be taken not to be artificial in showing empathy, as if your buyer thinks that you are feigning empathy, it will almost seem patronizing.  It will simply look as if it is being done to ‘get the account’.  This is not a good place to be as no one wants to be manipulated in that fashion.  This is very evident in B2P sales, where some of the sales happen over the kitchen table.

If you cannot be genuine, then you may want to avoid the appearance of empathy, as it will be noticeable.  We have all had a sales professional (used loosely) who tried to act understanding, yet was not that good of an actor.  It is insulting to say the least.

If you have the passion that should be evident as a professional attempting to help your customers find solutions, none of this will be an issue.  You will feel the empathy more when you have uncovered the customer’s needs and special situations through your interviews and probing.

Your customer’s need you to understand, and will award you appropriately.

Your comments are appreciated.

The popularity of Black Sales Journal has increased immensely over the past three years as advice on these topics regarding our noble profession has value to those of all ethnic backgrounds. BSJ readership is a spectrum of all colors, sexes, orientations, and nationalities. BSJ covers a variety of topics that are not discussed in any other forum.

BSJ deals with a multitude of situations,  from performance, to prospecting,  to prejudice (and more). Racial prejudice is real, but not always the culprit.   Racial discrimination is, at times, practically unavoidable; in a society that is so diverse and so unwilling to move out of personal comfort zones.  This allows decisions to be governed by the simple phenomenon I call Racial Preference.

Racial Preference in sales is when a buyer elects to do business with someone because they are more comfortable with that individual primarily because of their race.

Racial Preference is simple, and not always intended to be harmful, but I think you recognize that it can rob a deserving individual of success.  Whether intended or not, racial preference  often results in racial discrimination.  Nonetheless, there are strategies and tactics to deal with this, and we help to do that.

Racial preference happens, among all races, and we all need to avoid the simple urge to choose the person we elect to do business with on the basis of their color, gender, orientation, or nationality.  You see the quality of the individual, the level of their preparation, their responsiveness, and their professionalism make for a powerful case to do business with the best!  Always be the professional and always be the best!  We can take you there!

Black Sales Journal By The Numbers

I started Black Sales Journal in November of 2010 with an inaugural issue describing the purpose and the objective.  Three years later, in an extremely competitive market, I still hope to help Black sales professionals get the information that will give them an edge in getting that professional sales position, generate real prospects, leverage strong vibrant relationships, and … land the ‘all important’ account.

This advice is available for everyone, although I direct it to those that I think sometimes find themselves at a disadvantage for reasons beyond their control.

Here are some brief excerpts of the BSJ monthly report numbers defining readership that I think are so impressive and important:

Black Sales Journal - Statistics 2013

Even more importantly, I attempt to give realistic and logical strategies and tactics to get the edge while in the sales position.  As a result the site attracted and ‘held’ the attention of sales professionals and ‘want-to-be sales’ professionals who garnered information from the site.  Note these 2013 stats:

• 900 – On average, by month, over 900 visits to the site lasted for more than 15 minutes!
• 650 – On average, by month, over 650 visits to the site last for more than 30 minutes!
• 275 – On average, by month, over 275 of those visits to the site last more than 1 hour!

BSJ is viewed on computers, cell phones, tablets, and by RSS.

All told, there were over 71,365 visits to the site.  I would be foolish to think that some visits were not only on the bias of curiosity, but many come back again.

I Need A New Job!

One of the most important activities is to help professionals get the position.  There is no more important difference maker as getting the position, or improving your employment situation.  We don’t stop there, as there is no doubt that many professionals may be skilled sales people, but still have not had a wealth of experience negotiating salary, benefits, and terms and conditions.  There are many posts regarding getting the employment situation right for you.

March and April are two of our heaviest months each year, and I suspect it represents individuals attempting to be their best for the job hunt season.  In preparation for the 2014 job hunts we will spend the second half of January and the first half of February with post designed to get candidates, from newbies to proven professionals ready for a new frontier.

Master the Relationship!

If you have had a chance to read BSJ in the past you know I stress relationship management.  No matter what your color, the mastery of the relationship is the most important task you will have for lasting prosperity.

Minimize these disadvantages by having the most powerful relationship possible, and make some money!  Read Black Sales Journal to learn how.

If you master the relationship, you will learn that issues that were disadvantages, will suddenly be unimportant.  You will see that the advantage of the relationship trumps all else.

Thank You For Reading

Thank you for reading Black Sales Journal, and I welcome your direct comments feel free to email me directly at michaelparker@BlackSalesJournal.com and I will respond as quickly as I am able.  I hear from many readers, and help privately to solve problems.  Feel free to contact me.