Enemies, Coworkers, and ‘Vampires’!

I don’t want you to stop selling even for a minute.  On the other hand, I do want you to recognize the impact that coworkers have on you day-to-day.  You may have seen these before in Black Sales Journal. You may already know these topics, tactics, and skills, and your life may be easier.  Remember , you cannot pick your relatives or your coworkers!

Master the relationship!

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Making Enemies at WorkBackstabber – It Has Nothing to do with Color!

Success can sometime be vexing if you are a sales professional. As success and increased income for many sales professionals increases so do the rivals and detractors in the workplace.  Yes, the very things that we all wish for can turn into a terrible wedge and fuel attitudes from slight jealousy to flat out envy.  When this happens, the competition becomes less than productive, and relationships strained.

“Making it rain” is getting you notoriety along with the accompanying benefits of being the number one sales professional in the unit. Sales units are not teams, whether they are called by that term or not.

The Golden Rules

What I am going to say may not be golden, but if you treat it as such, your results will certainly be worth more.  Work on a simple set of principals at all times, not when you find the elusive success.

  • Practice being discreet – no one needs to know your income, or even how much you made on the last sale.
  • Be humble – at work, recognize that being humble is a sign that you recognize you did not do it alone.
  • Give credit and recognition to others – be honest and open about the impact of others in your success.  If you did it all alone, you don’t have to broadcast it, they will already know.
  • Help others – Remember the objective of mentoring, and if you cannot be a mentor, offer assistance where needed.
  • Continue the routine – If you are doing all of the above and finding success, continue the routine, and ignore the criticism.  If you are true to the above and doing your best, you don’t need to give anyone the power to deter you.

No one needs to see you dance on top of your desk when they are not having any results.  You can be happy and respectful of others in difficult times without sacrificing your success and gain.

We all have worked with sales professionals who whooped and hollered, and bragged and boasted when they scored a sale.  They even handed out cigars as if they had a new offspring after a new sale.  What they really did was to mock the fact that success can be fleeting.  To coin a football quote “…act like you have been in the end-zone before.”

There is no reason to not celebrate, just do it discreetly.  You can celebrate with your manager, or with your family or both, as all are beneficiaries.

Note – You may not care about these ‘enemies’, yet you should.  One could end up your manager, or your manager’s manager one day.  This could be important stuff.

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Friends, Coworkers,  and Vampires!

A sales department is best when it has a vibrant atmosphere and unbridled activity.  Once it gets going, sales professionals can be fueled by this activity and a desire to ‘compete’ with their fellow sales professionals.  If the atmosphere in your sales function is electric you will endeavor to be a part of it, hoping that success spills over to you.  If the atmosphere is more like a funeral, you will utilize your best judgment in attempting to separate yourself from it or at least insulate yourself as best you can.

Friend or Coworker?

As you already know, if someone is on the payroll they are a coworker.  The important issue is that in the sales profession, not all coworkers are your friends.

This is not meant to be divisive, but to stand in recognition that unless your sales function is organized in a different fashion than most, sales departments or functions are designed in a way that spurs competition.  This is not bad; it is just an environment that pits employees against other employees.  In sales you probably have learned to accept it.

Situations occur when you forget that ‘Emily and John’ are the competition and you believing they are friends share ‘trade’ secrets.  This is where feelings get hurt.  Be ready to compete fairly and recognize that these are coworkers, and you owe them respect, but give no quarter from a business standpoint.  Compete and win on the virtue of hard work, and doing things smarter.  Be relentless in terms of your persistency and always be ethical.  Your friends are not the same as your coworkers even though you may be committed to them.

The “Vampire”

I once worked in a sales department that had a variety of characters.  There were journeymen, sage veterans, hard working upstarts, and then there were those who were full of complaints and found nothing right with the manager, the company, the product or…. the world.

I call them vampires and if you know some of these individuals, your quest will be to keep away from them.  You won’t need garlic, or a crucifix, but will need to strictly avoid this person whose quest is to ‘suck the life out of you’.  These unhappy sales people have the poorest of attitudes.  To them everything is wrong with the organization and that they bear not fault or blame for anything.

  • The vampire is constantly on vigil to determine who is trying to accomplish anything new and innovative, so they can discourage them.
  • This individual is peering over your shoulder to determine if you are taking any new training or courses for self-improvement, as he or she would love to talk you out of it.
  • The vampire is trying to determine what prospect you are working on as he or she knows all of them and they want you to think it will be fruitless.
  • This individual would do anything possible to engage you in a long 3-hour lunch as he or she has nothing to do, and they want to make sure you get the same amount done as they do…nothing!

You know them, and they are a pain, once you realize what they are doing. You might avoid aligning yourself with them.

Always be the professional!

Lose the Electronics! Make the Sale!

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I was once in a meeting in Sanibel, Florida that was done in a spacious area styled meeting facility with two large screens integrated on two separate sides of the room.  Some of the numerous profit center managers were presenting their plan for the upcoming year.  It was not exciting but was informative.  The meeting was prestigious as it was based on the having some of the most influential people in certain strategic business units together to review strategies.

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It became obvious that many individuals in the room, all respectively high in their organizations, began checking their “crackberries” to find out what was happening back home.

The President and Chief Operating Officer then grabbed his personal microphone asked for everyone’s attention and said, “I have made arrangements with my assistant so that anyone who cannot turn off their Blackberry and give full attention to the presenters should go over to the help desk and get a ticket back home.”  He was serious, and I think everyone got the hint.

Creatures of Habit

This one may sound simple, yet in this day and age it is a little more complicated.  Let’s face the fact that this small item is something that you cannot do without in your daily life.  You have integrated your calendar, your contact lists, your pictures and videos, as well as your ‘to do’ list.  You check it every 5 to10 minutes or less to make sure that you are up to date, and…. Well you get the message here.

The problem with something that might be novel that you find indispensible is that others, including customers might find it a grand distraction, and even a turn-off.  A distraction to the extent that it could cost you a sale or even a relationship.

This short post will cover some of the things you might want t think about when it comes to your electronics, and the all-important interface with your customer.

Watch carefully:  When senior executives and the most important managers cut off their devices and put them away, most (but not all) people notice and do the same.  That is why we call them leaders.

The Problem With Gadgets

Gadgets, and particularly electronics, have a place.  I just suggest that it is not on a prospect or quote presentation call.

Some organizations provide presentation material on Ipads.  I don’t necessarily think it is the best idea, as I have had presentations made to me with that device, but the device serves as storage and the actual output device (the screen).

Gadgets are not only a distraction; they can make you appear rude and insensitive.  There is nothing about them that screams “customer focus”.

  • Alarms and tones which interrupt, startle, and distract customers and clients
  • They are not totally reliable when you need it
  • They are battery operated, increasing the unreliability.
  • Smart phones, PDAs, tablets, and laptops can create customer jealousy.  Many customers personal and business budget constraints keep them from having some expensive items.

Productivity Suffers Too!

Productivity woes as a result of smart devices happen whether you are talking about customers or sales professionals.  There is no clear measure for it, but it does happen.

Anytime appointments are missed, contact information lost, and files misplaced, there are hits against productivity.

In meetings, more frequent breaks have to be taken for people to access their phones, Blackberries, and even office devices.  In this day and age, questions can’t wait, answers can’t be delayed, and everything happens at the speed of light.  People are pressed to answer because answers and responses are expected.

Driving Danger

One of the other problems with these electronic devices is that once people believe that they have to provide ‘instant’ responses because it is expected, the real problem can happen.  The real problem is employees checking devices while they are driving.  As everyone knows, this is illegal in most states.

If you listen on any topic, let it be this one.  If you get a ticket for texting while driving, or using a cell phone without a hands-free device when it is illegal, there are organizations that may not hire you if you are in outside sales.  That is whether you have a company car or not because of the exposure that an employer has for gross negligence. Gross negligence is a blatant violation of a legal duty with respect to the rights of others.  It warrants large jury awards when it is proven.

Do the Right Thing

As a sales professional ‘do the right thing’ regarding your electronics.  Turn off ringers, and even vibrate modes while with customers.  There should be no distractions.  Use devices in the sales process only when it makes sense, and when your company requires it.

Whether with a customer, your boss, your coworker, or anyone else, your objective is to give them your attention.  Your electronics can wait!

Avoid violations while driving that can affect your record on a near-permanent basis.  Impress your buyer with your knowledge and skills, and remember that neither relationships nor sales are made with electronic devices.  They should just make life easier for you.

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