Deep, enduring customer relationships are the prize in some sectors of the sales world.  You will not have these with all customers, as an effort is required which goes far beyond the norm.  The objective is to have it with the most important clients.  Remember, if you don’t have a deep relationship with your buyer another sales professional will attempt to gain the buyer’s preference.

What is a “Deep Relationship”?

Before we discuss how to get there, we need to discuss the characteristics of this type of relationship:

• Preference – You receive preference in the buying relationship and buying process.
• A “Business” Friend – You are a trusted confidant with unlimited access to the buyer.
• A Business Consultant – You have knowledge of the customers business that few are privy to, including access to key individuals and information.
• A Social Acquaintance – Activities (sometimes) overlap into the social setting.  You have knowledge of your customer’s social and family situation, and conversely the buyer has a knowledge of your family situation.

This results in a buyer who, given all other issues, prefers to work with you and uses his power, authority, and influence to keep you the vendor to his organization.  This status is an asset, and it is not awarded without some effort and history.

Getting There and Staying There

Getting there is a journey and staying there is a matter of being conscious and consistent.  Attaining this position is done over time and with a lot of work and honesty.  This preference supersedes other preferences, including racial preference. Only someone with similar status and professional expertise can remove the incumbent.  It can happen if your promises are not fulfilled, or if your organization falls short in delivering.

I have “business friends”, former customers, from my days as a sales professional who have been friends for over 20 years. I still serve in the roll of business consultant in situations when they reach out for help.  These enduring relationships were based on the following activities:

• Give unparallel customer service
• Be Honest – always tell the truth
• Communicate, Communicate, Communicate – Tell all as early and completely as you can
• Share Information – give the customer updates including industry news, product news, legislative news early and often
• Be the professional
  • Make each contact meaningful and time worthy
  • Be timely in your meetings, contacts, and correspondence.
  • Be the professional

The depth of relationship comes when someone really likes you and understands you.  Some of these components can be included in the business database (such as Salesforce.com, Goldmine, or any Customer Relationship Management database) and some of these things should not be resident in a business database.  It is a compendium of information that is between you and the buyer, and should be treated that way.

Components of Your Customer Profile

Know your customer!  Use the Customer Profile to build familiarity, increase intimacy, and gain preference. 

Your Customer Profile should include references to the following items:

Customer’s background/history - The customer’s previous employers, and industries.  Know items such as high school, college (if applicable), and geographic background.  Know the customer’s preferred pro teams and hobbies.

Customer facts (away from the office) - This may start with the pictures on his/her desk.  Know the customer’s marital status, number of children including ages and sex.  Know the children’s high schools and colleges.  Sharing your own information is a start.  Sharing knowledge of this information personalizes the relationship. It is a great start!

Customer Requirements – Use the profile as a repository for any must do’s, or requirements for this customer.  Example – When to call, assistant’s name and particulars, and other valuable information.

Use the information wisely, and consistently.  Within your organization become the expert on the customer and his/her business.

The Relationship Building Process

• Build Trust – Always tell the truth! It is easier to remember.  Avoid stretching it, and avoid white lies. This is extremely important to keep your preference.
• Communicate, communicate, and communicate! – Give difficult information immediately.  Communicate as frequently as is possible and use different mediums, but in person or phone for difficult news.
• Be personal and personable - No one will expect to tell you about them if you won’t discuss yourself. Feel free to show your personality.  Discuss the strengths of your story, as a Black sales professional, he has probably not heard one like it.

As a Black sales professional, relationship building is ultra important, yet doable.  As you start with your current customers, hone your skills with those who you have the best relationship with.  This will pay dividends for the rest of your sales career.

I will not attempt to convince you that the annual performance discussion is a guaranteed positive moment in your life. Everyone has a different situation. This is an important milestone in your employment, and you should be prepared for this discussion as it will memorialize the past year.

The Performance Discussion

Whether it is called a performance review, a performance appraisal, or some other term, you will find this time useful in determining if your manager values you. You will be able to determine this based on the amount of preparation and forethought that the manager shows.

For some, this is a time of discovery.  You may be asked to gather baseline data that this session will be based on. In other words you will need to sift through the sales and operational statistics to determine what you have been doing for the past year. You might think that this is laziness on the part of your manager.  You might think that  you have been asked to gather the information to “hang yourself.” On the positive side it gives you the opportunity to determine your weak points, accentuate strong points, and in general fairly and cautiously spin the information in the best light, all while preserving the truth.

Scenarios–A Few Practical Examples

Here are a few examples of how you can use this activity in your favor:

Scenario 1 : You have not been successful in developing one or more portions of your territory. Your numbers show it, and you know it will be an issue.

In your self-review point out the territorial weaknesses, the reasons for the shortfall, and the objectives that you will undertake to solve the issues. Indicate interim check dates, final completion dates and intended results. In essence put together the plan for producing acceptable results. Advance the discussion toward constructive solutions that you have drafted.

Scenario 2: Your sales numbers indicate lower sales figures and close ratios than some of the other sales professionals.

If your activity generates lower production and close ratios than are the company norm, you need to consider “baking in” those lower ratios into your activity goals. It is not uncommon for Black sales professionals to have reduced close ratios yet still be effective and successful. Everyone is not your ideal customer. The reality is that you may have to work more prospective customers to get as many sales as others in your organization. You need to be prepared to point this out and have these additional numbers considered in your sales funnel or plan. Estimate your quote/proposal ratios and sales ratios in a realistic light then share these estimates in your plan if you have confidence in them.

Scenario 3: Your sales totals are lacking and your prospect base is light and lacking productivity.

Here’s where you need to consider some real changes. You need to have a plan that is aggressive, and puts in your own milestones for your goals. Take the opportunity to outline a plan (if possible) based on quarters (this is better than months) and what the numbers will be for the interim checkpoint dates. See the two examples above for examples of how you might structure this. Above all, you must have a stronger prospect base to succeed. Consider a niche for a specialty, maybe even more than one.  As you read here previously (Your Customer Needs An Expert, December 20– see Recent Posts), this can be in terms of industry, product, or maybe even geography. Check the potential of the niche in terms of availability and numbers of customers and go in with a plan to increase your prospect base. Be honest with yourself regarding the potential and do some preliminary research on the niche.

You Are the Expert On You!

Above all, as was stated in the last post,  “Be the expert on you!”.  If your sales funnel is weak you will continuously be subject to problems as you go forward. There is a “law of large numbers”. You cannot have the success that you need without some solid sourcing of perspective customers.

Remember, you cannot instill confidence in others regarding your activities if you don’t have confidence in what you are trying to accomplish.

Resources at Stake

Your access to resources like house accounts, call-in business, and accounts and prospects from terminated reps is all open territory for this annual discussion. All this is made much more easy by having a well-thought-out approach to any deficiencies in your performance. Be prepared with well documented facts and logic. As a manager of a production staff, if someone had a plan, I tended to let the plan play out if it made sense.

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